Some days are kinda crazy making aren’t they?
Demanding bosses, deadlines, kids to feed and ferry about, traffic jams, spreadsheets that freeze, unexpected bills or just “wrong side of the bed” days… nobody is immune to these, much as we might wish to be.
Yesterday was a crap day for me. Stressful, tiring, and aggravating. I cried in the car on the way home. I felt, in that moment, just FED UP with things, not massive life-altering things, but just annoying, joy-sapping, nipping at my heels stuff.
Ugh. I bore myself even typing that, but as the great sage once said – shit happens.
What to do?
Well last night, I applied a raft of balms – tears, KFC, chocolate, and a bit of in-car ranting and swearing.
Later in the evening I applied creativity, which is much better for me.
Today was better, but those niggling things are still there, stridently demanding my attention. It’s so easy for those things to take up my whole filed of vision. I’m not the only one that happens to, right?
As I got out of my car this afternoon, I looked up.
That’s the answer some days, isn’t it?
We are all under this vast blue sky – all of us, whether we’re having a run of the mill day, a moderately challenging day or a great day. We are all the same. All under the same sky, even if it isn’t blue where you are.
So, look up.
Then start counting.
It’s something I try and do often – count my blessings. I know that this can seem super-trite in the face of genuinely ongoing shit times, sad times, times of loss and illness, so I’m not at all comparing a shit day at work with those things. Not at all.
I just wanted to share what struck me today when I looked up at that amazing blue sky, and then grabbed my camera and took this photo.
There’s this awe inspiring sky… so vast and such a delightful shade of blue, there are fluffy clouds and there’s the edge of my house and some manky guttering and rotting wood.
What’s going to be the focus? I get to choose that. We all do.
I could crop the gutter out of the shot, showing only blue sky, but that’s not the whole picture.
I could crop out the sky and focus on this poorly maintained corner of my house – which reminds me that the walls feel wet after it rains and the plaster is breaking at the seams. Again, not the whole picture.
It’s both, just like life. Blue skies and gutters.
Which do you see?
Which will you choose?
What we see, and what we choose to focus on, is so important.
I hope you choose the sky.