My weekends are proper weekends again. Hooray, and phew, only two days not working to do things like switch the sheets, hang out with people, paint, shop, get my recharging time in, blog, sleep late – I’d forgotten. Looking forward to Fridays is back on my radar!
This weekend has been a fantastic combination of the social and the slow. As an introvert, I really enjoy people’s company, and I really enjoy, and need, big chunks of time by myself.
I set my alarm for Saturday morning and headed to Carlton for a #BWPmeetup organised by the lovely Naomi. A group of eight Blog With Pip alums got together at Travelling Samovar, a beautiful tea house, where we sampled a range of iced teas, learned about cold infusions and a little of the history of tea, and we even got to blend our own tea to take home. We all had a wonderful morning in their sun dappled courtyard.
One of my favourite moments was chatting with one of the owners, Pascale, about the BWP community. If you read more than one Pipster’s blog, I’m sure you’ve heard a lot of praise for Pip Lincolne, and hand on my heart, without elevating her to sainthood, I’d say Pip’s greatest achievement as a teacher is fostering a truly supportive, encouraging, online community. This is rare! As we all know, the internet can make people lose their minds (and manners) a little, as anyone who spends time reading comments, message boards, or hanging out on Facebook and Twitter would have seen.
I was so proud to be able to tell Pascale about our community, how those of us who live near each other arrange meetups and how some travelling Pipsters have arranged international meetups, and how I have friends like Rach in Auckland thanks to blogging.
So Saturday started out with a fun and social vibe. A few of us went on to lunch a few doors down and we had a great conversation over pizzas and salads. I enjoyed a cheeky glass of midday wine!
I was so happy that I got to meet a few new people, and enjoy a gorgeous summer morning with such quality ladies.
The rest of the day was solo and quiet, which also suits me just fine!
This morning I baked a KILLER loaf of banana bread using this recipe by BabyMac. I love that #sundaybakingsunday has become part of people’s routine. I love seeing all your delicious pies and cakes and lunch box treats on Instagram.
I’ve done a little painting, hung out online and am showered and wearing fresh pjs! For bonus points, it is Fresh Sheets Day. Ahh, life is good.
Time is precious.
Whether you enjoy it more in the company of others, or spending it alone, or a combo, time is a real privilege.
We have only this moment. Today.
I hope that thought inspires us to treat each other with kindness, to be mindful that everyone we meet has battle scars and victories that have shaped them, that the best thing to do if we feel unsure of someone’s intention is to ask, politely, and as appropriate, to engage more with each other. I wish I could look you in the eye as you read this. I truly feel like I’m entering into conversation with you here. I want it to be a genuinely open dialogue.
So here’s to slow Sundays, social Saturdays and the simple joy of putting my head down on fresh sheets tonight.
How has your weekend been? Got a story to share? I’m listening.
12 thoughts on “Sociable Saturdays and Slow Sundays”
Ah! The weekend was spent watching the Bobby D fit out the new tack shed where the kid’s go riding. Lots of fresh air, sunshine and country goodness. He’s looking a bit worse for wear though! And I am trying to ignore the washing that needs doing! A good weekend had over this side of the ditch too. 🙂
Ignoring the washing is a worthy goal!! Country sunshine sounds delightful.
So happy for you Annette! It’s great when life takes on a rhythm that you enjoy and relax into. And how great is the BWP community? x
Oh Karen it’s SO FAB. I know I must sound like a deranged fangirl at times, but it is a community I’m so proud to be part of.
Sounds like a PERFECT weekend Annette! I’m like you – love being with my friends and family but really love some quiet, pottering time. I’m really enjoying a new type of weekend now that I have one child/adult out of school and with a newly acquired driver’s licence! With no sport and ferrying around, it has freed up time to do something for me on the weekend. Morning walks and coffee with my husband, reading, baking, crafting, drawing – and some housework to get ready for the week. Feel like we are regaining a lovely balance!
Sounds wonderful Carolyn. Enjoy!!
It’s so very lovely to hear about the Pipsters day out – we must get our act together in Brisbane! It truly is such a beautiful community and I feel very privileged to be a part of it.
I feel exactly the same Robyna. Best!
It was so lovely to see you at the Travelling Samovar Annette, and to meet some lovely Pipsters in real life. Great that we had a chance to eat and talk afterwards to. More of it!
But I’m with you. Alone time is spesh too.
Sure was a fun day.
The less time you have, the more precious it is 🙂 Your BWP outing looked lovely and I am very pleased that the whole work scenario is on the up and up.
Me too! Definitely seeing my weekends as super precious again Nicole.